Monthly Archives: April 2015

10 things to do rather than having your nose in someone else’s business

I know this might be a hell lot rad and a bit rude. So people pleasers and ass-lickers can stay away or proceed ahead at their own risk.

Well the world is full of people and some people are full of shit. The reason why i say this is, the people who ‘suffer’ from this nose poking by others are often people who always mind their own business (because they do have one) and find it mean and obnoxious of others to be so much interested in their life instead of focusing on their own.

Here’s the thing, there is a lot of grey into this.. Let’s try to figure this out in the simplest way possible

Two categories

1. Nose pokers

2. Non Nose pokers

Now there are two categories for the first one

1. The non nose pokers that are sometimes nose pokers because they’re just being naughty or out of curiosity

2. Nose poker, is nose poker, always nose poker, will break it’s nose but will somehow always find a way into your business poking it’s. i don’t know, plastic nose, eh?

Non Nose pokers have the following categories:

1. Never poked a damn nose anywhere at all. This is a rare species and the society is generally not fond of these people. Partly because a major part of our society is seeking attention all the time (but will still complain) These are wonderful people. We love them.

2. Nose pokers converted into non nose pokers. These people are going to heaven.

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Coming back. If you want to be such a convert you may:

1. Focus on procrastinated chores and activities.

2. Learn a musical instrument.

3. Adopt a stray animal and take care of it.

4. Read a book

5. Write a book

6. Learn baking and cooking.

7. Meditate.

8. Ask yourself. Do i really need to be so stupid?

9. Clean your room.

10. Go help your mom, you douche.

Jokes apart. I don’t mean to say that people who take interest in other people are bad. We are humans and that’s how we bond. All i mean to say is intention matters. It always does.

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Ramblings of the misunderstood

I do believe that earth, at it’s brilliance is the human race and that we aren’t perfect but perfect enough to not only survive but metaphorically be the rulers and conquerors of those that are way more stronger than us. But it cannot be denied that our body and mind, at it’s best also has flaws and incapability. Coming to the point, no matter how efficient you think you are, a lot is lost between thinking and conveying. The things that are lost are the things we wish we knew because the absence of these things is exactly why misunderstandings occur.

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I am not sure how far this is true but some of us seem to be more unfortunate than the others. We speak louder, clearer, try to be more efficient than we have ever been. We repeat ourselves, are more expressive in showing affection and concern. We are the light bearers. We initiate negotiation, try to clear things up. We consider others’ feelings above our own because we are constantly convinced by our conscience to do so.

This is the category of people who have been through the bad side of life, are well aware of how bad things can get and most importantly don’t want anyone at all to suffer the same way they did.

The funny thing is these people are misunderstood easily. In a world like this why would anyone be good to anyone! People are suspicious, sometimes too immature to understand the motive behind this person’s good behavior and at other times this person is tagged as a people-pleaser and left alone.

There is a limit to which someone would bare things. A human limit to which someone tries to be human. A wound often covers itself with a tough cuticle to protect itself, so does a wounded heart. Constantly being misunderstood does that to people.

So anyone who seems distantly cold and uninterested may not necessarily be a cold person. Life’s a bitch. And perfection is a lie. Illusion is the truth.