Monthly Archives: January 2014

On heartbreak.

True ^_^

Rants.

The thing about heartbreaks is that they happen silently. You don’t and won’t hear a heart breaking. It just, breaks. Shatters. In a way that it gets impossible to even remember that there was once a time when it wasn’t broken.

All my life I’ve been trying to name this sinking feeling. The kind that puts a huge boulder on your chest. I’ve understood what exactly it is, now.
A heart weighs a lot more when it splits in two. Hence, the sinking feeling.

I’ve wondered if it’s possible to stay in love after having your heart broken. Apparently it is. When it’s the unrequited kind. You know, selfless and all. No matter how hard the heart breaks, you don’t fall out of love if you fall in it, once. Especially, when you’ve created a life of your own in the castle that you built in the air, with the…

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Good taste is better than bad taste and bad taste is better than no taste and men without individuality have no taste- at any rate no taste that they can impose on their public.

-Arnold Bennett

True. Who likes anyone who has no opinion about anything! Although having an opinion and taste about everything can also be severely annoying…

Avoiding confrontations

Lacks tact in situation

Behind every line is a lesson here to learn

– Prettiest Friend, Jason Mraz 

All of us have done this. Because sometimes we are too scared of losing someone that we do not pay attention to our wants and wishes. Maybe because deep down somewhere we are aware of the fact that the person or the people whom we care about might not understand the depth of our relationship, maybe they don’t have the maturity to understand it or maybe they might take it the other way. We can’t tell all our friends we love them. We can’t tell all our friends we feel their care. It’s not that there is lack of tact, it’s just that we fear spoiling it. 

‘Cause in the end, all that we want is happiness. Happiness for them and for us. 

Hence all of us have this one huge box of feelings that we never confessed, that we never could reveal. You share yours i share mine! 😀

We occasionally stumble over the truth but most of us pick ourselves up and hurry off as if nothing had happened.

Yes of course we run away. But sometimes it is the only option we have. The only way to keep going ahead is leaving certain things behind. The truth shall always come out of the shell as nothing has more freedom than what truth has. The truth is ashamed of nothing.. It is proud of nothing. It is just the dearest creation of the Creator.

2014 kick-ass start!

All of us deep down in our hearts are waiting for a life changing event to occur. A promotion, an admission, a person! But we tend to forget the fact that we are the ones who are he creators of our own fate. That we ourselves can bring the change in our lives by being the change. So if i want more love in my life, i gotta be loving. If i need more care i’l have to be caring. If i want the world to see my talents i shall have to recognize them at the first place. ‘Cause God shall help those who shall help themselves and i am eager to be helped.

So the first thing we need to do is decide what we want.

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Okay.. let us consider my case. I want to learn more. Be more creative and learn new things.

For this I need to be more accommodating. I need to accept the fact that i am a student. That i shall definitely make mistakes but i shall rise over them.  And also I need to

1. Be disciplined about time. : So that i don’t mess around with my current important course

2. Be patient: So that i don’t lose my mind in the middle of any task and lose it all.

3. Be humble: ‘Cause if i fail at this point, the whole process of learning becomes pointless

Now this is a list which i shall paste on the wall and looking at it shall remind me of my current priorities…

Yes, we all need to have big goals to get on big things. But we need to take small and firm steps. Getting clear about what we want is the first and the most important step!

Begin with the right attitude 🙂

@2014 I am gonna rock you kid 😀